I appreciate and respect the concept of a wedding registry. I have a rule - when I buy gifts for a wedding, I always buy gifts from the bride and groom's registry. But when I heard about this gift idea, I had to rethink my rule.
It's quite simple. You buy four to six pairs of candles of any size/shape in different colors, and you wrap them pretty in a basket. And then, the most important part, you print this poem out on a card (making changes as necessary for the colors you bought), and you make the bride read the card out loud:
A basket of candles that come in a pair
In all different colors, for you two to
share
The white candles are the first pair to
light
Use them to celebrate your first
married night
Red candles set the mood and pave the
way
For your first married Valentine’s Day
The lavender candles are for after your
first fight
Use them to burn while making up all
night
Now, when your first year of marriage
is through
The light blue anniversary pair, will
light for you two.
By this time we hope, maybe, just maybe
You can light the dark green ones on the
birth of your baby
And just when you thought you would put
these away
Take the light green ones out for your fifth
anniversary
Now just one pair left – for the big
2-5,
The anniversary pair that will keep
your love alive.
Congratulations ____ & _____
On the start of your forever
May the two of you always be happy
together
And burn these candles
Just the way we said
But please don’t forget to blow them
out before bed!
With Love,
________
I change the poem slightly every time, but I always leave in the candle for the first baby (it always gets the best reaction). Regardless of how many candles I choose to use, this is hands down the best bridal shower gift! It is incredibly sentimental and it gives the bride a chance to realize that she is about to get married! It always catches everyone by surprise.
Best part about this gift is that it can be budget friendly. If you want to spend more, you can always purchase candlesticks from the bride and groom's registry to go along with it (or just add a gift from the registry).